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「それと、あくまでキスするのは今日の夜一二時だからね?士道に逃げられたりしたら困るから、無理に唇奪おうとかしないでね?」

Is the bold part a combination of (意志形)〜ようとする and とか (so that the とか is used in place of と)?

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Yes there is とか in this sentence. The basic meaning of ~とか is "things like ~". But its main role here is to soften the sentence by signaling the speaker is aware that it's unlikely. 唇奪おうとしないでね without とか can sound like a serious request, but with とか, the sentence sounds more like a half-joke.

明鏡国語辞典 has this explanation:

とか

〔若者ことばで〕断定の調子を避けてやわらげる。
「まだ用意━できてない」「さすが山田さん━言っちゃって」「いやだな━思わない?」
▶ 伝統的な言い方では、ほぼ「など」「でも」に当たる。

とか has replaced と in the last two examples. "嫌だなとか思わない?" sounds milder than "嫌だなと思わない?", as if "I guess?" or "maybe?" were added.

なんて has a similar function: 唇奪おうなんて思わないでね? / 唇奪おうなんてしないでね? (the latter is less common)

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