I am watching a current anime, That Time I Got Reincarnated as a Slime ( 転生したらスライムだった件 ). The protagonist, now a reincarnated slime in the isekai story, is making friends with a dragon. The specific conversation begins at time code 20:30 of chapter 1*. After they have agreed to be friends, he thinks to himself (sub, time code 21:17):

It's a little embarrassing talking about "friends" at my age...

He was 37 when murdered. Why would he be embarrassed to use the word "friends"? Is there a better word to be used between adults?

* Link is to Crunchyroll, an American streaming service. I don't know what other countries will be able to view it.

This question is a follow-up to What is Japanese version of the pun word, “slife”? … and term for adult friend?. On Anime & Manga SE. @кяαzєя answered it, and he suggested I post a follow-up question here.


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The word tomodachi ("friend") itself is not really embarrassing, although there is a more formal word for this concept. In this case, this tomodachi also represents the whole exchange he has just made with the tsundere dragon. Indeed, innocently and directly saying 友達にならないか ("Let's be friends!") is not something a typical middle-aged man would do, at least in Japan. It sounds to me like what a kindergartner might say. Usually such a relationship between adults starts without mentioning the word tomodachi. (By the way, the situation is different when it comes to romantic relationship.)

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    Thank you; that makes sense. I understand what you mean about an adult suggesting, "Let's be friends" within minutes of meeting another adult. Even in American culture that I don't believe it is a common occurrence. BTW, I up-voted your answer, someone else down-voted within minutes. Not that the points will make any difference to you. :)
    – RichF
    Commented Oct 15, 2018 at 4:43
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    37 is middle-aged?!?! Man, I must be positively ancient... Commented Oct 15, 2018 at 12:13

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