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子供達の負担になりたくない。

なりたくない meaning is: don't want to be or don't want to become?

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It depends on the context. If you are already [負担]【futan】 a burden or a load of your children, the answer is "be". If you are afraid of being a futan of your children in the future, the answer is "become".

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