I'm having trouble understanding exactly what this person is saying to me. The context being that I was asked a question by them, and after responding they said this:


I believe: そうでしたか! = Was that so!? And maybe: それを聞けて = Able to hear that and ...

But: 逆に安心しました = was oppositely relieved (?) Does this mean they became relieved, and were worried before (the opposite of relieved), or something else?


It means "(I probably shouldn't have heard that) but when I could hear that, I was rather relieved ."

逆に in this sentence means "on the contrary", "rather". For example, 失敗して逆に良かった(I failed, but on the contrary it was good).

  • I'd say whether 逆に refers to "shouldn't've heard that" or something else depends very much on the context. E.g. it could also refer to "I was afraid to ask but hearing this explanation I'm 逆に glad I did." – deceze Dec 20 '16 at 18:12
  • @deceze If it means your sentence, I think 逆に isn't necessary and それを聞けて良かった would be natural. – Yuuichi Tam Dec 20 '16 at 18:43

It means the feeling of being relieved goes against what one might have expected, perhaps contrary to what the person themselves expected.

So that's how it was? Despite what [you/I] might've thought, I am relieved having been able to hear this explanation.

What exactly that expectation that was broken is depends on the context and cannot be inferred with certainty here. One guess, which makes this sentence less convoluted sounding:

So that's how it was? I was afraid to ask, but hearing this explanation I'm glad I did.

Or perhaps:

… Despite what you might think, I'm relieved you explained it to me.

(This would be the appropriate interpretation if your explanation might put the person into an awkward position.)

It's also possible that it doesn't have any particular meaning at all and is mostly a habit of the speaker.

  • They opened their question with 「ちなみにお聞きしたいんですが、」, so I believe you're correct about the awkward situation part, that's a nuance I hadn't thought of. Thank you! – Noktis Dec 20 '16 at 19:17

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