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This is the sentence I'm trying to translate... I can't figure out which part is being negated
好きになるというのは自分の一番皮膚の薄い柔らかい場所を差し出すことでしか成立しない
I translated it as:
whoever the person you come to love is your biggest weakness
and then I have no idea what the end would be. I know what the parts mean individually but I can't make them connect.
If you're not familiar with the しか～ない construction, please read this first.
［好きになるというの］は［（自分の一番皮膚の薄い柔らかい場所）を差し出すこと］でしか成立しない
The basic structure of the whole sentence is:
AはBでしか成立しない （≒AはBでだけ成立する）
A is established only by B.
Nothing but B can make/form A.
Where
So the whole sentence roughly means "To love someone, one must give/devote the thinnest and softest skin part of you body" or something like this.
To translate this naturally, I need some more contexts. In particular, I'm not sure what B is actually referring to. B may figuratively mean "showing the fragile part of your mind" or "being honest", but it may have a more sensual and explicit meaning.
