Is there an equivalent of "Don't stroke his ego" in Japanese? I assume that such a phrase would be relevant in Japanese, but I've never heard it.


  • 「あんまり褒めると調子に乗るからやめとけ」とかでどうかな?ちょっと違う? – Robin Dec 26 '15 at 19:35
  • It kind of makes sense. "A surplus of praise causes cockiness so stop". The meaning is similar. – Paul Cunningham Dec 26 '15 at 20:08

There should be a dozen or more "equivalents". As a general tip, you will always receive a better answer if you let us know who is speaking to who -- ages, genders, relationship, etc. The more information you give, the better and more natural the phrases will be.

Off the top of my head, I could give you:





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    I think「おだてない方がいい」is crisp and closest to the idiom, "stroke sb's ego. Though it might be the gild to lily, you can add '余り'ーtoo much - like あまり彼を煽てない方がいい to 'soften' the tone of your message. – Yoichi Oishi Jan 1 '16 at 3:17

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