My question is how is the concept of "getting to know" or "knowing" someone conveyed? How do you invite someone to get to know you better? I was posting a message on mixi and could not figure out what the phrase for this was.
Sentence example so you can understand contextually...
If I sound nice, then don't be scared to get to know me. or I'd prefer not to talk about that until I know you better.
How do I express this in japanese? Are there stock phrases? Any help is appreciated.