I have a question about how to properly answer a question.
At restaurants, the hostess will often ask 「何名様ですか」 ("How many in your party?")
For example, if you have four people in your party, is it proper to reply 「4名です」? Or is 「4人です」 better?
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7Just hold up a few fingers and grunt – ssb Dec 10 '14 at 1:32
There is no difference between 4人です and 4名です.
You may say the word as you like.
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2The first result on Google for "何名様ですか" was that only "バカ" use "4名です" (a racist post, so I'm not going to link to it). I'm curious why the writer of that post thinks so. However, I'm not convinced 名 is an honorific; many other answers in Japanese (like on Yahoo) say either is fine, just like your answer. – Anonymous Sep 24 '14 at 2:52
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5I saw the post now but almost Japanese don't think so and 名 is not honorific. 様 is a honorific. If you reply like 4名様です, it is wrong. – Yuuichi Tam Sep 24 '14 at 3:10
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1Your answer definitely matches with what I've seen used; Japanese friends often say "4名です" at restaurants. It's interesting that one source that user snailboat found says 名 is honorific. Most sources seem to indicate, though, that 名 is simply formal if anything. Thank you for your insight! – Anonymous Sep 25 '14 at 0:59
According to the article from "トクする日本語" by NHK, 人 is used when you just count the number of people whereas 名 is more used in a formal expression or when there is a fixed number.
「人{にん}」＝【単純{たんじゅん}に人数{にんずう}を数{かぞ}える場合{ばあい}】、「名{めい}」＝【改{あらた}まった表現{ひょうげん}をする場合{ばあい}、定員{ていいん}･定数{ていすう}のある場合{ばあい}】とまとめることができそうです
Therefore, restaurants wouldn't ask you "何人様{なんにんさま}ですか". As a customer "４人" is more appropriate since "４名" sounds a bit formal and objective. Although, nowadays people don't really mind whether "４人" or "４名" is used in response.
